(A friend at work who I wish I could find a niece to marry, told me about this test so I took it. I was surprised to find it 100% accurate.)
Portrait of an INFJ - Introverted iNtuitive Feeling
Judging
(Introverted Intuition with Extraverted Feeling)
(Introverted Intuition with Extraverted Feeling)
The Protector
As an INFJ, your primary mode of living
is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via intuition. Your
secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you
feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system.
INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and
highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of
hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an
INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.
INFJs place great importance on havings
things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy
into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define
and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate
within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They
know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without
detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually
know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their
instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and
outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other
Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise
orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.
INFJs have uncanny insight into people
and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively
understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs report experiences of a
psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem
with a loved one, and discovering later that they were in a car accident. This
is the sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ
themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which can be
verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves,
sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are
deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to
understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.
But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as
they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they
are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring.
INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid
hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it
very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally
peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to
internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when
under a lot of stress.
Because the INFJ has such strong
intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. This may
result in an INFJ stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions.
They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who
doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at
complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be
doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant
growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have
strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they
feel is right. In deference to the Feeling aspect of their personalities, INFJs
are in some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high expectations
of themselves, and frequently of their families. They don't believe in
compromising their ideals.
INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient,
devoted and protective. They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds
with their offspring. They have high expectations of their children, and push
them to be the best that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the
INFJ being hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, children of an INFJ get
devoted and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.
In the workplace, the INFJ usually
shows up in areas where they can be creative and somewhat independent. They
have a natural affinity for art, and many excel in the sciences, where they
make use of their intuition. INFJs can also be found in service-oriented
professions. They are not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks.
The INFJ will either avoid such things, or else go to the other extreme and
become enveloped in the details to the extent that they can no longer see the
big picture. An INFJ who has gone the route of becoming meticulous about
details may be highly critical of other individuals who are not.
The INFJ individual is gifted in ways
that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they
are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.
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